Caspering (The Friendly Ghosting)

Being “ghosted” or “ghosting” someone feels so cruel. 

But sometimes you actually have to just disappear. 

Because it’s kind to you, or kind to the others, or just plain time to get gone. 

I really wanted a word for ghosting in a friendly way.

The best I can come up with, so far, is “Caspering.” 

Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is to just let go.